Friday 13 March 2015

MODERN YOUNG LADIES WHOSE GOAL IS TO BE USELESS WIVES

Most ladies are all over yapping how men have become lazy, and fear responsibilities in marriage to an extent of quoting or rather misquoting the bible in the name of "man was to be the provider".
But I have a reason to believe that most young ladies are not only lazy, they are generally useless in making a marital foundation. They are indolent, slothful, sluggish, useless idle bitches who will just sit there watching useless soap operas while shamelessly admiring the soap male actors and secretly wishing that their husbands would imitate them. They nag their husbands all day long as they suspect them of having affairs with other beautiful women since once these young ladies get married, they simply stop making efforts to be passionate; after all the hunt is over and have you ever seen a hunter hunting what he has already killed?
They live under their parent's roof being taken care of in literally everything, and immediately wants to get married and the man who marries them to take over where their parents left.


Most are yapping that men have become mamas boys…yet these young ladies are getting into marriages while they are so immature such that most marriages simply break up within a year and utmost 5 years if the man is patient and tolerant enough.
These ladies do not want to work towards making the marriage survive the challenges of this life. They sit there waiting for the man to provide everything e.g. foot the bills, meet their basic needs, take them to hospitals like children, guide them all over like little babies, show them the way etc. Ironically, they will label themselves "independent woman" while in reality they are breathing the very life that belongs to their husbands. No wonder after marriage most of these ladies get fat and their men get thin, awaiting an early grave.
Once they get a man, all their ambitions die. They become lazy, boring, gloomy stay at home house wives whose only goal is to give birth and raise children. All they do is sit at home watching bongo and naija movies and contemptible soap operas, and grow fat!
The Bible talks of the perfect wife in Proverbs who is the direct opposite of these modern useless women. A hardworking, self-driven, self-motivated woman whose even husband is confident of her abilities.
Read the wise sayings below:-
Proverbs 31:10-31 
Epilogue: The Wife of Noble Character
10 A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. 
11 Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value.
12 She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life. 
13 She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands. 
14 She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar. 
15 She gets up while it is still dark; she provides food for her family and portions for her servant girls. 
16 She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.
17 She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks. 
18 She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night.
19 In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers. 
20 She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy. 
21 When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet. 
22 She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple.
23 Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.
24 She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes.
25 She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.
26 She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
27 She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. 
28 Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: 
29 "Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all." 
30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.
31 Give her the reward she has earned, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.

From the above Epilogue we can note that a lady worthy being called a wife is responsible, hardworking, self-driven, etc. Even her husband is not ashamed of her but has full confidence in her abilities as a woman , her children are also proud of her. But these young ladies want a husband who will not only play the roles of a husband in their lives, but by extension the role of a father and literally take over from where their fathers left, no wonder most never get along well with their mother in laws since they are lazy bones who are just fattening their asses with their husband's hard earnings!

Now my question is: These generation of ladies who want to sit their asses there as the man provides everything for them and the family, where did they come from? These modern ladies should be declared a national disaster.


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2 comments:

  1. Based on this woman's comment, She is definitely do know understand how to be a good wife, good person and good family member....

    During old time, it is very shameful to be lazy..
    But in modern day, millennial, modern wife and etc do not feel shame to be Lazy, they even proudly to called them self lazy, as if LAZY is their life's goal...

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