THE OTHER SIDE OF THE MOON –: CHP 9 – Time moving fast!

“The only thing that would make me hate you is lying to me.” I told Linnet. I had been lied to by Christine several times and I knew how painful it is to be hurt by someone you love.

Linnet gave me a tight hug and told me, “I will never hurt you.”

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Our relationship seemed to move on fast. USB did not seem to know what was going on and so did not bother with us as I had expected.

I went ahead and introduced Linnet to some of my relatives who were living in Nyeri town but we still had a day to visit our parents. We visited my parents first. Linnet was a sociable woman and she blended perfectly with my people.

10 WAYS TO GET DATED ON FACEBOOK

In as much as Facebook is not a dating site, numerous people still manage to get a date on Facebook and go on to form a long-lasting relationship. Facebook is a huge social site with all manners of people and it is easy to get a great person to date from the website. Granted, people join Facebook for their own reasons which are varied, but if you joined Facebook willing to get a date, here are some few guidelines to ensure you get a date from someone on Facebook.

FIVE KEY FACTORS TO CONSIDER IF THE STORY IS WORTH FOLLOWING OR READING

With an upsurge of online writers for stories all over internet, it has come with several challenges among the readers and the major challenge is, “Which story should I read and which story is not worth reading?” Granted, every writer has the freedom to write whatever they wish to write, and you cannot stop or control that. However, readers must note that all writers have specific genres or a niche upon which they anchor their works of fiction e.g. sex, crime, thriller, social life, love, real life experiences, fantasy, religion, humanism, etc. A writer can even choose to mix a few of these niches in order to deliver the story perfectly. It is left upon the writers from there to pick what they love reading and ignore what they do not like reading as no writer can satisfy the needs of everyone in this world.

However, below is a list with points to consider when choosing which story to read to save a reader from an obvious confusion arising from seeing numerous writers online. As a reader, ask yourself the following questions…

10 WAYS on how to pick the perfect sperm donor

Whether you think this is morally right or not, I do not care. The truth we cannot deny however is that most ladies of late are opting to become single mothers. I am not addressing those who are forced into single motherhood due to reasons like dishing their cookie to every man welding an erect dick, or as a result of divorce they did not anticipate, etc. But those who make informed decision to be single mothers. They go ahead and pick a man to sire for them a kid or several, then go ahead to live as a single mother family. So how do you ensure you pick the right man?

Below are 10 key things to consider when picking the right man, this is according to me but ladies are different.

20 Signs he is using you and will dump you later

Ladies, if you are in a relationship with a man who exhibits more than 10 of these points, then just realize the man only wants you for sex and nothing else!

15 Dangers of being an extremely beautiful lady

The lie that everyone is beautiful, is just a myth. It is made worse by the lie that beauty is in the eye of beholder.

The world has beautiful women. Too beautiful to be comfortable. Ladies with great complexion, great shape, great butt, great boobs and everything about them is extremely admirable. Some are even gifted with great brains as a real social booster!

The type of ladies who even fellow women admire, and men salivate for. Even the most faithful men in their marriages would risk being given a divorce by their loving wife just to have a 15 minutes passionate body combat with these ladies.

We have ladies who as a matter of fact never get married reason being they are too beautiful to be married!

But what are the dangers of being extremely beautiful?

10 REASONS Why “Bitchy” Drama Queens aka bad girls get the best men

You have been brought up as a humble, nice, mild, quiet, well mannered, good Christian girl. Everything about your life is just focused on making others happy and putting the best interest of others forward. You still remember the pastor told you that pre-marital sex is a sin against the most high’s temple, which is your body and thus you are likely a virgin at 30. You have said no to virtually all men who wanted you as a lover reason being they attempted to kiss you, or wanted some passionate moment with you. The morals ingrained in you dictates that no sex till marriage, and somehow your ideal man should be a born again Christian man who the Lord reveals to you in a dream.

But as time passes by and years roll down, all the girls your holy mum told you are destined to hell are all married, settled in not so perfect marriage but at least have a family to brag of. Some are single mothers but hey! They are at least proud to be called mummy by those innocent small voices. But how comes you are still stuck, “waiting for God’s time?” The reasons might be because this world is such an arena where the strong carry the day, and Bitchy drama queens (Bad girls too) dominate the dating scenes all the way to heaven for the following reasons among others: -

THAT DEADLY CASANOVA GUY

Most or all women have meet this type of a man. He is charming, so attractive, well built, stylish, hunk or very handsome with a well chiseled jawline, has a dimpled smile with luscious lips, his well cubed chest cannot be hidden no matter what he wears since his square shoulders stands out, he is tall, with deep blue eyes. He has charisma and his voice when he speaks is also equally charming and persuasive. When he speaks, people listen.

Most such men also happen to be successful. Not necessarily so wealthy but can cater for major financial issues of this world. So he is not just bringing to a woman’s life his heavenly body, but also romance catered by finance.

But he is deadly, as shown in this article…

11 ADVANTAGES OF DATING AND MARRYING A SINGLE MOTHER

Some men view a single mother to be a burden or a BIG NO. They see it difficult to love a woman with another man's child. But these are some reasons why loving a single mother could be the best choice.

FOR TYPES OF MEN LADIES ENCOUNTER IN DATING SCENE

The other day I was watching this Tanzanian Movie where a girl meets a nice man who is wealthy and very generous to her. The man’s dressing code is nice suits, he drives big cars, and he by all means a good man. The man offers to even pay her college fees; he also relocates her poor mother from the low class shanties in the ghettos to a bungalow in a gated neighborhood. The man continues to provide for her and her family for a long time. When this man tries to make some sexual advances towards this lady, the lady acts “holy” and tells him, “Why can’t we chill till we get married?” and the dude does not insist.

Then while in campus the lady meets this man who also is in campus, whose attire is casual jeans, has an earring, has dreadlocks on his head, he rides a mountain bike on his way to college and lives in some ghetto like house with pictures of reggae musicians decorating the walls. Besides, he also happens to be a player double-dealing several women at once! Surprisingly, the girl falls head over heels in love with him and even gives in to his sexual demands almost instantly!

8 Reasons why you should not date or marry a single mother

Some months ago, I write an article 5 Reasons why any serious single lady should NEVER date a dead beat!

This time I am going to write the opposite. First let us clarify some misconception here. A woman whose husband died is called a widow. A single mother is a product of some deadbeat somewhere or a product of some irresponsible sexual cum social behaviors and they happen to be a bit complicated women whom I am going to explain some reasons why I feel single men who are searching should steer clear of them. Why? Read on…

6 Terrible ways men are using social media to steal from women in the name of love

Ladies beware…

There is a very organized syndicate of criminals stealing from well of ladies in the name of love.

There is a rising trend amongst some cunning men who are seriously conning women in the name of love. They normally target desperate ladies, who are independent, earning and are willing to love. They are social predators so lethal such that once they are done with you; you are left miserable, bitter, depressed and even suicidal.

These men are exploiting the woman’s feelings. He will come into your life with all sweet words, promises of lots of romance, he will even take you to outings at his expense, some are even driving cars….hired or their own no one knows…but woe unto you, he is a snake waiting the right moment to strike.

Once you trust him so much, the following scenarios will ensue:-

21 Reasons you should stay away from the so called independent ladies

The traits below are for the toxic women in the society hiding under the banner of “independent woman” but in reality they are worse than parasites, toxic than poison and extremely lethal to the marriage institution.
If you are a single man searching for a wife and the lady you are dating has any of the below traits, dump her before it is too late.
If you are a lady who intends to once get married and you have a lady friend with any of the below traits, stay away from her before she poisons your mind.
If you are a married lady and one of your friends exhibit such traits, stay away from her before she poisons your marriage.

Note: My post is directed to those who misuse the term “independent woman”.

26 LIFE realities which are a little bit BeYoNd what we can change! (tutabaki kutamani tu, unless we work really hard, or a miracle happens)

At one time in their lives, before they accepted they can hardly change a thing about it…or changing it is dangerous…

8 HOME REMEDIES for WIVES to improve their men’s sexual power

Many ladies inbox me this question, “What can I do to make my husband satisfy me with sex? He has weaker erections!”

Some men have weaker erections and due to their ego, you cannot tell them to try to improve. But did you know you can improve such using home remedies and being creative?

Below are 8 SURE practical ways to enhance your man’s sexual vigor!

5 Reasons why any serious single lady should NEVER date a dead beat!

Call me a sadist, a hater, or any other name you wish to call me, but my Name is Anthony Kerry, and I am here telling my single loving and caring sisters they should never date or even think of getting married to a dead beat.  A dead beat according to Kenya's street dictionary is a man who made a lady pregnant and abandoned that lady such that he does not take care of his offspring. Some ladies prefer calling them sperm donors.

And trust me, Kenya has an abundance of dead beats. The most interesting thing about most dead beats they happen to always walk around so innocently as if they owe the society nothing, as if they are male virgins, or innocent victims of women who tried to trap them with pregnancy. Come on dudes, a pregnancy is not like a rat trap, even rats are wiser nowadays so which man claims a lady trapped him with pregnancy? Worse, which idiot believes such tales? Dead beats are just that: dead beats.

Here are my reasons why any single serious lady should never date or even dream of getting married to a dead beat.

HEY LADIES HERE ARE THE 7 TYPES OF MEN YOU SHOULD AVOID GETTING MARRIED TO

I love women. I love warning women but most women think Anthony Kerry hates them. Women do a lot of stupid mistakes. Many women end up with heart breaks due to reasons they could have easily avoided.

Here am daring all women who are single and searching, if you value your happiness, do not marry the men I am going to describe in this article. They come in all shapes, sizes, career including the might KDF and the humble church ministers!

Do not even think of falling in love with them because sooner or later, you will regret why. Never say I never warned you. Read on…

Why “I Hate” Single mothers.

First notice the “I hate” is in quotes for one reason, my hatred is specific and I am going to state the facts here. So many people think that I hate single mothers but I do not.

First of all I have a lot of respect and appreciation for ladies who deliberately choose to be single mothers, out of choice, but not due to circumstances. Life does sometimes force us to make tough choices and at times the choice is to be a single mother. WHY?

Some men, women would rather be without them. Examples…

Men and Music genres

Do you wish to know which men to date based on their music choice?

Read on…you will be surprised.

No romance without finance?? Ladies give men a break

We all know the line "No romance without finance". A line which dents many a man's ego.

Well, men know too well also that "No romance, without beauty and gorgeousness".

Men are accused left, right, center for killing romance in modern era by all women of all walks of life.

I dare say, blame it upon women for the death of romance. Here is why:-