You have been brought up as a
humble, nice, mild, quiet, well mannered, good Christian girl. Everything about
your life is just focused on making others happy and putting the best interest
of others forward. You still remember the pastor told you that pre-marital sex
is a sin against the most high’s temple, which is your body and thus you are
likely a virgin at 30. You have said no to virtually all men who wanted you as
a lover reason being they attempted to kiss you, or wanted some passionate moment
with you. The morals ingrained in you dictates that no sex till marriage, and
somehow your ideal man should be a born again Christian man who the Lord
reveals to you in a dream.
But as time passes by and years
roll down, all the girls your holy mum told you are destined to hell are all
married, settled in not so perfect marriage but at least have a family to brag
of. Some are single mothers but hey! They are at least proud to be called mummy by those innocent small voices. But how comes you are still stuck, “waiting for God’s
time?” The reasons might be because this world is such an arena where the
strong carry the day, and Bitchy drama queens (Bad girls too) dominate the dating scenes all
the way to heaven for the following reasons among others: -