5 Reasons why any serious single lady should NEVER date a dead beat!

Call me a sadist, a hater, or any other name you wish to call me, but my Name is Anthony Kerry, and I am here telling my single loving and caring sisters they should never date or even think of getting married to a dead beat.  A dead beat according to Kenya's street dictionary is a man who made a lady pregnant and abandoned that lady such that he does not take care of his offspring. Some ladies prefer calling them sperm donors.

And trust me, Kenya has an abundance of dead beats. The most interesting thing about most dead beats they happen to always walk around so innocently as if they owe the society nothing, as if they are male virgins, or innocent victims of women who tried to trap them with pregnancy. Come on dudes, a pregnancy is not like a rat trap, even rats are wiser nowadays so which man claims a lady trapped him with pregnancy? Worse, which idiot believes such tales? Dead beats are just that: dead beats.

Here are my reasons why any single serious lady should never date or even dream of getting married to a dead beat.

ONE: BABY MAMA'S DRAMAS

You meet a man, he is tall, dark and handsome according to the holy trinity of women. He is also rich and romantic, a perfect target for women. But he has made a girl or several pregnant in the past and walked away. My sister, avoid that man like a plague. Why? Jilted ladies, especially if they sincerely loved the man, and got an offspring with him, are known to stalk the man even if he migrates to Moscow! Baby mamas are always tracking down the man, have a way of always getting his number no matter how many times he changes it, etc. They are always knocking in his life with numerous reasons e.g. your child is sick, you child needs its dad, your child needs school fees, your child this, your child that etc. Some baby mamas will even cause a real drama by constantly dropping the child at his place or worse, his work place and escorting the poor child with a salvo of insults and causing a scene since she wants the whole world to know how a dead beat he is.

Do not even think of the court cases pertaining paternity claims! the costs for DNA tests, time wasted etc…

Some baby mamas will even confront you accusing you of breaking their relationship and stealing their men, call you some sour names and paint you black all over the neighborhood of what a husband  snatcher cum home breaker you are!

Which woman wants to forever live under the shadow of baby mamas dramas? Worse some men have several baby mamas! Trust me, once you get into a relationship with a dead beat dad, your life will be full of bitter dramas.

TWO: DIVIDED ATTENTION

Come to think of it, the man you are dating has a baby mama or several. Some demanding upkeep for his children, some even demanding upkeep literally from the man e.g. house rent, bills etc, after all the baby mamas are bringing up his children right?

The man will never give you all his attention since some of his attention will always be with his child, his baby mama or both! Some even visit them secretly and you will only be told, "I am out of town for an urgent business meeting" and guess what, they even share some passionate moments together!

Some baby mamas are perfect for never letting go of the man, and will forever draw his attention and you will be such a fool to even think that the dead beat will give you all his attention as long as he has some of his attention elsewhere. After all, blood is thicker than water!

Some even later reunite leaving you out in the cold nursing a bitter heart break, or worse, having been made a baby mama yourself!

THREE: POTENTIAL OF BECOMING A SINGLE MOTHER

Old dogs hardly change behaviors, and that goes with dead beats. Some men out of thrill or whatever reasons, have a tendency of losing interest with a woman once she get a child!

He made another woman pregnant, or several women pregnant and dumped them, what makes you think you are too special he cannot do the same to you? You will be so foolish to think otherwise.

Worse, some dead beats who later reunite with their "first love", and leave you out regardless of whether you have a child with him or not…

Ladies, as long as you are dating a dead beat, chances of you becoming a single mother are always high. Think of that.

FOUR: YOU WILL NEVER BE HIS NUMBER ONE

Ladies feel like a queen, or feel some sense of accomplishment and achievement once they give a man his first ever offspring on earth. They feel proud. Now once you are dating a dead beat, or getting married to one, that chance is denied to you forever!

After all, he knows that too, that he has another child with another woman and his manhood pride and ego happens to lead with the other woman as compared to you. Furthermore, he knows he can dispose you at will and go back to "his family", or rather the other woman who has his child(ren).

In simple terms, you will never be his number one. His baby mama is his number one. Period.

FIVE: JEALOUSY GALORE

Naturally women are more jealous than men, after all true love is jealous. But this is pushed a notch higher once you get dating a dead beat and worse you know it. Questions like: Is he still seeing his baby's mama? do they still communicate? do they still make love? does he pay her bills? does he take care of his child(ren) of the other woman? how soon do  I also give him a child? does he think of going back to his other woman who has his child? was the other woman more romantic than me? was she sexually attractive than me? does he feel proud of his child and the other woman for making him a father? Does he give her more money than me? Does he still love her? etc… Endless questions fuelled by jealousy and perhaps the dramas themselves.

I can assure you my sister, once you get into a relationship with a dead beat, you will never have peace.

I rest my case.

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