Some months ago, I write an
article 5 Reasons why any serious single lady should NEVER date a dead beat!
This time I am going to write the
opposite. First let us clarify some misconception here. A woman whose husband
died is called a widow. A single mother is a product of some deadbeat somewhere
or a product of some irresponsible sexual cum social behaviors and they happen
to be a bit complicated women whom I am going to explain some reasons why I feel
single men who are searching should steer clear of them. Why? Read on…
ONE: Baggage
There is always that aspect of
her baggage from the past. The fact that she is coming aboard that relationship
with an extra mouth to feed, an extra soul to take care of means that she is
not only looking for a partner but also a mate to help her take care of her
kids, clean up or cover up her past messes and also to perhaps handle her
bitter or jealous ex who never thought she will move on.
TWO: It is a love triangle forever
There is you in the picture, her
as your lover and also the baby daddy at the far corner connected by DNA with
her child forever. Some insist that even if she are married the baby daddy
should continue taking care of the kid, or rather the baby daddy still sees his
kid and that kid ensures that the love triangle is forever complete. No escape
from that.
THREE: A forever victim sort of drama queen
Single mothers never assume
responsibility for their mistake and they wish to be viewed as victims of men,
and assume that victim status forever. Because a single mother always sees
herself as a victim of society, she’s always talking about her problems. And
she always has a new trouble to bring everyone. There’s never a good day in the
life of a single mother because there’s always some new crisis about to emerge
in her life.
The reason single mothers’ need
the drama is because it makes them feel important. It makes people pay
attention to them. And when Captain-Save-A-Hoe is doting on them trying to
solve their problems it makes them feel an artificial sense of value. They need
that value to deflect people’s attention from how pathetic their lives actually
are.
FOUR: “I am more woman” attitude
Having brought a human being to
this world, they think they are more women than those single ladies without
children and worse they want everyone to buy into that propaganda. They even
call themselves independent women as they try to intimidate even fellow women
with that tag of single mother. They are mostly fond of “what a man can do a
woman can do better” and any man trying to differ with her will face her
feministic wrath in full mode.
FIVE: You are never a priority
A single mother assumes the
attitude that her kid(s) comes first and no matter how much you love her you
are never her priority. They can cancel a date without notice in the name of ‘my
kid this…my kid that…’ etc. Any man who winds up with a single mother gets some
of the last slots of her list of prioritized things in her life.
SIX: They think the world revolves around them
A single mother is one of the
biggest narcissists on the dating scene. She often thinks that a man has to
drop everything in his life to be part of hers and her kids. They’re so selfish
they don’t think a man has needs, wants or a life of his own. He’s just
supposed to be there to give her everything she wants in life as soon as
possible. Some even black mail men in the name of, “If you love me, buy my kid
a …”, “you are doing this because you do not love my kid(s)” etc.
SEVEN: The kid is against you too!
The men who have tried to discipline
a child from a single mother he is dating live to tell a tale or rotten brats
whom their mothers over defend such that the kid also realizes that you are a
foreigner in her mother’s life and the sooner you get the hell out of her life
the better.
EIGHT: The right to first born is taken from
you forever
She came with a first born,
Simple. I don’t need to explain that.
Real men understand that life is
too short to spend it with lots of dramas that come with single mothers. If you
are a single dude who is not a dead beat, don’t waste your time with single
mothers. There are more than a million single ladies without baggage from the
past and one of them is surely waiting for you!
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