FOR TYPES OF MEN LADIES ENCOUNTER IN DATING SCENE

The other day I was watching this Tanzanian Movie where a girl meets a nice man who is wealthy and very generous to her. The man’s dressing code is nice suits, he drives big cars, and he by all means a good man. The man offers to even pay her college fees; he also relocates her poor mother from the low class shanties in the ghettos to a bungalow in a gated neighborhood. The man continues to provide for her and her family for a long time. When this man tries to make some sexual advances towards this lady, the lady acts “holy” and tells him, “Why can’t we chill till we get married?” and the dude does not insist.

Then while in campus the lady meets this man who also is in campus, whose attire is casual jeans, has an earring, has dreadlocks on his head, he rides a mountain bike on his way to college and lives in some ghetto like house with pictures of reggae musicians decorating the walls. Besides, he also happens to be a player double-dealing several women at once! Surprisingly, the girl falls head over heels in love with him and even gives in to his sexual demands almost instantly!

Why would a girl turn down such a nice dude only to fall in love with a bad boy?  This is what we are going to address in this article, the four types of men women encounter in the dating scene.

We have these four types of guys which ladies have to at one time come across in the dating scene, whether she accepts him or not depends on her decision.

1. The Boring men
2. The nice men
3. The bad boy
4. The classic men

The Boring men

These men are the most readily available to ladies; they are all over like some useless soil by the roadside. They are the scum of the dating world. They often happen to lack ambition in life, their thinking capacity is extremely below average and they can never strike and maintain a conversation with a lady. Some even lack character and nothing really defines their life, they are just there whether the world ends today or lasts forever. Even in sex, they just think sex is for procreation alone, missionary style is the only thing they approve. Sex in the dark alone and the sight of a naked woman disgusts them. Talk of dating and their lack of ideas on where to take a lady for an outing is quiet evident. Most ladies who finally settle for them are the desperados; because chances are high she will end up feeding him too!

They are represented by the brown color: Dull, boring but all over!

The nice men

They are rarer than the boring men. At least they have some good characters which they often exaggerate. It is worse if they happen to be saved! This is the man who will be extremely nice he literally forgoes his own happiness in order to make you happy. What irritates most about these men is their total lack of adventure. When they get into a career, they lack ambition and they can remain at one point forever. Also a relationship with them might come to a stand still for years until the lady gets bored and quits, or goes with a better man.

These men seems promising initially but once a lady is with such for some time she realizes that the man is boring e.g. always says same love phrases, takes you same spot for outings, if he is saved he only wants you to accompany him to church alone etc. These men also talk the truth as it is! Too honest.

He might be rich, but these are the men who make ladies realize that money is not the source of happiness, but something beyond money.

These categories of men are well hidden under the boring men and it is easy to confuse the two.

They are represented by white color: They want to be very blameless as to end up being boring!

The bad boys

Notice that in our classification this is the only category with the word “boy”. This class of men mostly has boyish charms which tend to attract ladies so fast like some illusion. These types of men are never genuine as they will talk what a woman wants to hear, not what a woman deserves to hear. These men do not care about women’s feelings and the world revolves around them. They know how to keep women’s feeling hyper either through ignoring them, lying to them often, double dealing them etc and most women confuses the emotional roller coaster with being in love.

Talk of sex and these men knows how to arouse in women some feelings they have never experienced, because they make you feel just what you want to feel.

Lies are what sustains relationships with these men and will not hesitate to take an exit once the relationship with a woman is no longer beneficial to him.

They are represented with color red, so visible but equally dangerous!

Bad boys are only accessible when you penetrate via boring men, and past nice men because most ladies bypass some very nice men only to end up with a bad boy!

The Classic men

This category of men is as scarce as blue diamond. Most men end in this category after years of experience either through heart breaks or experimenting with life itself. These men know what exactly they want in life, and not only that, they have the courage to go for what they deserve. These men mostly do not brag like bad boys how they can love a woman, but the qualities in them just radiates naturally and they attract women without even making an effort to. But unlike bad boys, they will never use their charms to take advantage of a woman and they can as well turn down women’s advances.

They are also smart dressers, often happen to be wealthy since they always work hard to get what they think they deserve. They are creative, exotic, unique and highly elegant. They are perfect lovers too.

For a lady to get such a man she must pass through boring men, nice men, bad boys to finally get a classic man otherwise, and most ladies will never even experience what it feels to be with a classic man.

A nice man can easily learn to be a classic man, a bad boy might also refine his characters and end up being a classic man but boring men rarely get past their category.

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