SEVEN indicators she is not a WIFE MATERIAL

 The rate at which marriages are breaking up is worrying and it is an indicator that something went unchecked during courtship. It is not surprising to have two young people getting caught in the heat of initial infatuation as to completely ignore the warning signs that whoever you are dating is not a wife material not only to you but to anyone.

Many are a times when men ignore some indications that the girl you are dating is not worthy being a future wife. Marriage is about spending the rest of your lives together and if the girl/lady you are in love currently has the indicated characteristics in her personality, then I assure you that she is not worthy being your wife. Read on…

ONE: DRESSING CODE

Do not lie to yourself that your girlfriend who is currently wearing mini to micro-skirts, see me dresses, semi nude clothes will change overnight once she becomes your wife. Wearing like a stripper in some night club or some holly wood movie actor of sensual movies is something that should warn you that she is not yet ready to be someone’s wife.

Girls who are serious in getting a man to settle with begin behaving like they indeed can make a modest and respectable wife to any man. There is no point when your first born comes in he starts wondering why mummy is competing with her on wearing tiny clothes. Ladies should take heed and start practicing being a good wife or be ready to disappoint a man in future.

TWO: RUDE CHARACTER

If your lady friend is the rude type and she shows no willingness to change even by all your interventions, just swallow your pride as a man and quit that relationship. Rude girls have never made anyone’s good wife, not in a lasting marriage.

IF your girl is rude to you, her friends and those who come near her, trust me, when you make that girl your wife, sooner or later you will regret why you took her as a wife.

THREE: EMOTIONAL INSTABILITY

Being happy in one moment and sinking to the bottom of sadness in the other for no apparent reason may be a warning that she is so emotionally unstable. Not always does this mean she is bad as it at times happen to ladies, due to various natural reasons though. But if this is her second nature, there is a problem here.

Marriage comes with enough challenges and if someone is not able to handle her emotions during courtship then how will she tackle more difficult issues in marriage?

FOUR: TOO DEPENDENT

If she relies on you in all aspects of her life, this is a bad signal. She calls on you whenever she needs anything, virtually. She cannot make any decision without involving you.

Running a home needs a good degree of independent thinking and if someone has no independence of thoughts how then can she be trusted with weightier issues that comes in marriage?

FIVE: LIER

This is almost self-explanatory. Someone who lies to you during courtship and acts like it is normal is not right for long term relationship or marriage.

This also extends to her social life. How easily and often does she cheat someone in your presence? How easily does she create a lie and act like it is a cool thing to do? Is cheating too easy and normal to her such that it does not make her feel any guilty? Is such a person someone who you can easily trust?

Make a liar your wife and you have just courted the devil to live with you.

SIX: MONEY MANAGEMENT

A girl who would rather spend her entire money on beauty products and expensive make ups in order to impress the public at the expense of the basic necessities of life is not worth any man. A lady who insists on expensive outings, expensive clothes, weaves, shoes at the expense of basic needs, or to a point of stressing her man with monetary needs just to finance her expensive lifestyle, is lady who does not have any thoughts of a future, at least with the man in question.

How a girl manages money can be used to judge whether she is worthy being anyone’s wife or not.

SEVEN: YOU HAVE NOTHING IN COMMON

Getting someone who is a complete replica of your personality is boring either and almost impossible. But if you happen to date a girl who you have nothing in common e.g. likes, hobbies, future goals, social traits, etc then I can assure you that getting married to such will yield a rough marriage or a very boring marriage.

When infatuation is over, you will need activities that spice up your relationship and keep things going in the right direction to avoid ‘Falling out of love’. This is where having some things in common comes in and saves the marriage.

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