21 Reasons you should stay away from the so called independent ladies

The traits below are for the toxic women in the society hiding under the banner of “independent woman” but in reality they are worse than parasites, toxic than poison and extremely lethal to the marriage institution.
If you are a single man searching for a wife and the lady you are dating has any of the below traits, dump her before it is too late.
If you are a lady who intends to once get married and you have a lady friend with any of the below traits, stay away from her before she poisons your mind.
If you are a married lady and one of your friends exhibit such traits, stay away from her before she poisons your marriage.

Note: My post is directed to those who misuse the term “independent woman”.

1. She loves to do things without consulting, something which is not healthy for relationships.
2. She thinks all men who want to do favor to her wants her cookie, since almost always all men do that. This way she cuts off genuine friendship with men.
3. She is stubborn, wants things done her own way. Again not healthy for relationships.
4. She always thinks she is right. A discussion with her is always a debate, which ends up in arguments, and she always wants to win and have the final say.
5. She often wants to be left alone, since she sees company as a bother. Then later often turns around and accuses the man for not having time for her!
6. She loves to play mind games to her lover, trying to intimidate him in order to show him that she is in control of her life. The mind games includes telling the man, “I even don’t need you to survive, there are so many men who wants a woman like me, you found me already rich, etc”. Well calculated statements meant to crush the man’s ego!
7. She is headstrong and everyone around her is a potential competitor in her life including her lover.
8. She loves to intimidate people with what she has (whether borrowed or owned), in order to put a show to the world how independent she is and thus does not need anyone in her life.
9. In order to get children, most just plainly use men e.g. pretend to love a man, once they get a baby they disappear or push the man away with whatever means. Ironically, they are the ones who shout most how men are dogs or how men are irresponsible yet they are the ones who deny the men a right to be responsible.
10. Mostly happen to have a child or children but are single mothers. They are even ready to go shouting to the world, “I even have children of my own, so I don’t need a man in my life”. In short to them being an independent woman has everything to do with not needing a man! The phrase “independent woman” is some sort of payback term to men.
11. She guards up her emotions, shuts herself in her own world, and still expects her man to read into that as if he is some psychic man.
12. Independent women are stingy especially to fellow women, in order to maintain their status quo. They think assisting someone is giving them a way to elevate their lives yet she wants to remain at the top.
13. She is reserved, untamed, and even some simple show of affection she might interpret them as weakness. These are the type reggae musician sang, “Do not take my kindness for weakness”.
14. Love to her is just an emotion that can be discarded at will.
15. She does not believe in partnership in relationships, she wants a clear line of “what is mine” and “what is yours”, and she wants to retain an upper hand in the property.
16. Even in marriage, she talks of “my” a lot e.g. my car, my house, my money etc and does not want to use the adjective “our” e.g. our car, our house, our money.
17. Most end up with secret bank accounts which their husbands know nothing of, but insist on knowing all her husband’s wealth and properties.
18. Most adopted the term, “independent woman” after having one or several failed relationships or marriages, which surprisingly, they contributed to their downfall in order to adopt the term independent woman.
19. She hates ladies who are happily married and have successful families and loving husbands. She views married women as weak, foolish women who allow men to misuse them. Independent ladies even go trying to poison marriages, some literally “snatching” other ladies husbands in order to break their marriages. They are bitter.
20. She is rich, has money, wealth and lives a pompous life. She insists she does business to earn her numerous incomes but on a closer look, no one knows exactly what types of business does she do. This translates to my last point below.
21. Lastly, most so called independent women are as a matter of fact dependent on a chain of men varying from young, old, single, married etc. Men who supply her with all she wants e.g. money, sex, gifts, cars, etc. She only hides under the banner “independent woman” so that she continues to attract more life sponsors. It is not surprising that most of her friends are men, and she clearly says so.

NB: Being an independent woman has nothing to do with being rich, but attitude. The real independent ladies do not go shouting to the world they are independent.

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