Monday, 4 February 2013

60 Hot Tips for GUYS to be ROMANTIC, without FINANCE!

Keeping love and romance going calls for being able to do the many little things that we tend to ignore but they really matter in love life. The gentle touches, the soft kisses, the little surprises here and there all add fire to love and romance.
“ Let me touch your heart, the way you touched mine, let me feel your soul, the way you felt mine, let me feel the deepest part of you, that hidden core of your heart, where no man has ever reached. Let me be the one to make your heart become a spring of love flowing like a clean stream down the mountain...” It is all in the name of romance. 
Below is a list of 60 HOT tips of how you can be romantic without having to use money. It is all about gestures and attitude. [I am nullifying the saying, “No romance without finance”]. Read on…


Two in love.

When you are with her…

  1. Touch her waist gently.
  2. Talk to her, try whispering very close to her hears something nice.
  3. Share secrets with her, your most private and personal life. This way you will nurture trust.
  4. Let her wear one of your most favorite T-shirts.
  5. Kiss her gently, passionately. Kiss her on the neck from behind, as you release your breath in short spasms. {Drive her crazy, Huh!}
When walking with her…

  1. Hold hands in public.
  2. Walk shoulder-to-shoulder.
  3. Grab her hand suddenly but gently.
  4. Tap her waist or shoulder gently, as if to suggest something.
  5. Wrap your hand across her waist protectively once in a while e.g. when crossing a road. {Protect}.
Do not forget to always…

  1. Laugh with her often.
  2. Hug her whenever an opportunity presents itself.
  3. Surprise her with a quick kiss on her cheek.
  4. Look straight into her eyes and smile.
  5. Hold her hands and stroke her finger nails.
When you are not with her…

  1. Send a text or call her. Wish her a good day ahead and let her know that you miss her.
  2. Send a provocative text message that does not end...creates some suspense instead.
  3. Call her, don’t say “hello” when she receives but call her, “Sweetheart, honey, angel, my queen…” or any other sweet word {Be creative!}
  4. Always end a call with an, “I love you”, “I miss you”, “Thank you {any sweet word}, etc Blow a kiss towards her on your phone.
  5. Never let a day end without calling her. That is a crime!
Moreover, make it a point to…

  1. Call her or text her every night and wish her sweet dreams.
  2. Always tell her how important she is in your life.
  3. Let her know always that she is the queen of your heart.
  4. Sing a song to her/ write a poem to her/narrate to her a sweet love phrase etc
  5. Make her feel special in your life.
It is also important to whenever an opportunity arise…

  1. Look straight into her eyes and tell her that you love her.
  2. When hugging hold on to her as long as possible.
  3. Hold her close when it is cold, let her feel your warmth.
  4. When seated close to each other, probably in a movie, wrap your hand across her waist gently, you will be surprised that most ladies automatically lay their head upon a man’s shoulder due to that simple gesture.
  5. Kiss her on the cheek.
Also remember to...

  1. Always stand by her when the rest of the world is against her.
  2. Rub her back gently, many people feel relaxed when you do it.
  3. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
  4. Keep the conversations flowing. Study your lady and master what she loves to hear. {That is magical}
  5. Surprise her by secretly hugging her or holding her waist from behind, ladies fall for it big time.
  6. Let her sit on your lap.
  7. Kiss her when she is seated on your lap, or when you are sitting on her lap.
  8. Take her for long walks at night while watching the stars... Tell her the sparkle of the stars do not equal the sparkle of her lovely eyes. Huh!
  9. Using your finger(s), write something on her back.
  10. Give her your pullover, jacket or coat when it is cold. This makes her feel the care in you.
Keep the romance fire burning by...

  1. Smile whenever she is smiling.
  2. Take photos with her, while holding hands, seated together, playing together, sharing a sweet etc
  3. Invite her to go with you on your own daily errands.
  4. Hangout with her and your friends.
  5. Tease her; make her repeat the phrase, “I love you”. Or repeat the phrase severally and jokingly.
  6. Stand near to her hold a flower close to her heart; tell her she is more beautiful than that flower.
  7. Do activities together e.g. go swimming together, read a magazine together, watch a movie together, play together, fill up puzzle word together, cook together, dance together etc {Togetherness}
  8. Always hug her and say, “hi darling” whenever you meet.
  9. Keep on telling her she is beautiful, she is a queen, she is your first lady, etc
  10. Always tell her you feel great to be with her.
What more can you do…

  1. Open doors for her, house door, car door, etc. This act make ladies feel protected and honored.
  2. In a restaurant, always ensure she gets seated before you. Same as, always ensure she goes in first e.g. in a bus, house, etc before you.
  3. If there seems to be something wrong, you ask her and she denies, just don’t bother her.
  4. Make her feel loved {Again be creative}.
  5. Mentor her in something that you know, offer her some guidance, and teach her something. This will make her feel that you are important and in control.
  6. Don’t lie to her, don’t cheat on her. Be Faithful.
  7. Be there for her whenever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can ALWAYS count on you.
  8. NEVER fight in public, your differences should be kept secret.
  9. Make her feel great, praise her, encourage her, re-establish her worth as a woman of power etc
  10. When you are wrong, admit it and remember to say, “I am sorry sweet heart, please forgive me.”
Even the Bible can teach you romance, just read the Song of Songs by King Solomon and learn for yourself some romantic tips from the holy book. So, can I conclude that even God is Romantic?

NB: I am not a relationships expert, I am a Data Manager.

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